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How to build marketing that makes everyone happy when they all want different things.

Iāve been a fan of Really Good Emails since i first saw their cheery logo somewhere and went āOHMAHWERD HOW CUTEEEEEEā immediately subscribes

The logo in question
Their site, their vibe, their loooong list of emails has inspired me for every year since. (According to the lovely ticker iāve been a fan since 2019-09-24)
And along with a truly darling and delightful email cadence, whimsical copy, and frequent weird unofficial polls (scroll to the very bottom for an example),
their annual UnSpam conference landing page has lived rent free in my mind for the last six years because it has, wait for itā¦
Boss Mode.
I saw this when they first launched and choked on my quickly cooling latte.
Boss mode???
uh huh.
Toggle it on their Unspam landing page and it will take you from this ā to this.

Thereās even a whole list of common boss-like objections and how to handle them.
IT EVEN HAS A TEMPLATED EMAIL AT THE BOTTOM TO SEND TO YOUR BOSS.
Sorry iām yelling, itās just SO FRICKING BRILLIANT.
And iāve kept it in the back of my mind as i did messaging for SaaS coās ever since.
Like. For 207+ of them.
Because once you go upmarket from where-your-end-user-is-also-your-buyer (B2C, prosumer) to the range of SMBās and Enterprise, messaging getsā¦dicey.
As in, you really have to cut it up into chunks.
Because the person who needs the product, the person who can get it approved, the person who is actually gonna get it paid for, and the person paying for itā¦
Are 4. Different. People.
And those last 2 are more than likely they are NEVER gonna use your tool. Like, ever. (Sorry. š IYKYK)
And the first one (the end user).
They have no power hereeeee.
Which means you need 3 different sets of messaging.
(4 if youāre being generous to that end user)
So you say the right thing to the right person at the right time (deep breath)
To get them to send it up the chain
to the next right person at the right time.
Are you tired yet?
(iām getting another latte)
But if you donāt look at your messaging and build marketing materials with this in mind you will almost never close higher-ticket, multi-step deals.
You just wont.
So, in todayās issue, iām going to walk you through a painless (i promise!) way to build Boss Mode into your marketing in a week.
So you can close bigger deals and see a Stripe notification for $500 (or $5K!) a month.
Instead of the normal $50 subscription price (wouldnāt that be nice?).
Now before we get too deep - this is who this issue is for:
SaaS coās who have:
product-market-fit
a stable product (not crashing and hella buggy)
a target audience in mind (either youāre moving up into the space or youāre getting inbound interest) ā Donāt know how to choose one? this is how
if youāre still validatingā¦this is too far ahead.
Bookmark and come back later!
Day 1: Jump in Loser, weāre going to the Matrix
If you havenāt heard of my Messaging Matrix before, itās a matrix to help you map out your customersā:
pain points
underlying problems
product-feature descriptions tied to the outcomes they want
unique words & phrases
biggest objection(s)
objection handling
stats they need to convert/send up the chain
their next steps
in a quick, easy-to-reference guide.
And itās a crucial part of going from customer research ā marketing that lives in the real world.
I wrote a whole issue on it, here: Jump in Loser, weāre going to the Matrix
Thing is, that matrix assumes the same person whoās using and buying are the same person.
When theyāre not, you need to do this ⤵ļø
Day 2: map your sales process
You need to know what each step of your sales process actually is and who is in it in demographic and psychographic terms.
So start with looking over all of the sales calls you have with larger customers and see who they said they had to talk to before proceeding.
Better yet, throw the last 5-15 call transcripts into ChatGPT and ask it to reply back with the process, quoting lines verbatim and saying where they came from. (Works best if you upload the transcripts to a folder, not into the body of the chat!)
If you donāt have any sales calls to go off of, Iād start with some Reddit research.
Often people will post the saga of what it takes to get a new tool approved and youāll have everything you need in one post.
Check the comments too, sometimes people reply with their own stories in equal long-form.
Look for 2-3 posts from the last 2-3 years to make sure youāre getting the complete picture.
If you have no idea where your sales process is and what it should look like, then you need to talk to Brandon. He worked with me on my sales process and is no-nonsense and straight to the point. 10/10.
Day 3: Pull transcripts from 5-15 sales calls.
Okay, now that you have the calls (or at the very least Reddit posts and comments), go through them all and see which are from user, manager, or decision-maker.
Tag quotes accordingly (colored highlights are great to be able to see this at a glance).
If thereās a group that you donāt have enough from to make more than an educated guess, then flag it for tomorrow.
You need 1-3 sales calls for each buyer.
Day 4: Build your Multi-buyer Messaging Table
if you already have your messaging table - double check your table and make sure you arenāt combining roles, then pull out each layer of the buying process
if you donāt have it, then start from the top - and make each header a different buyer
looks like this ⤵ļø

Day 5 - part 1: find your gaps ā look at the proof section at the bottom of the table
Look through your transcripts/comments and see what each person in the food chain specifically asked for or said they would need to convince the person above them (or below them).
If you canāt fill it out the proof section based on your sales call transcripts, then itās time to do some sleuthing research on just what those kinds of buyers want.
Fire up your customer research approach with Reddit (hereās the link to how to do it!) and specifically look for what proof that kind of buyer needs to give the product a whirl.

Day 5 - part 2: build those missing pieces
Do they want a one-pager that covers x,y,z? then build it.
Do they need a landing page that explicitly in boss mode? write it and hit āpublishā (we have a guide for you here, part 1, part 2!)
Bonus day (you need this) - prep for your next 3 sales calls
Update your discovery call script (Brandon and I talked about it here!) so that you donāt have to think about it in the moment
look at your calendar, and update your CRM (donāt have one, well have we got an issue for you!) with your notes so youāre ready to talk to whatever person youāre in process with and help them sell you up the chain (or close that thang!)
Want an example of what this final matrix looks like?
Iām so glad you asked! Hereās an example report we did for a client that has the multi-buyer messaging table in it.
Jump to the āSpecifics for each ICPā header in the doc and ⨠behold, the messaging matrix broken up by buyer! āØ
I know, this might look like a lotā¦
(Okay, look is a soft word, it is a lot)
Lots of what i send doesnāt take considerable time blockouts to do. This does.
But the reward is closing deals in the 4-, 5-, 6-, dare i say 7-figure range.
The biggest deal I ever closed was just shy of 6-figures.
And it was because I was able to use what each person in the room cared about and convince them we had it covered.
That cash completely changed our agency trajectory and let us have a team retreat in Nashville.
I couldnāt have done that if I hadnāt thought through what to say first.
And knew it by heart.
New here? Hello! šš½
Iām Sophia and I run Ignore No More, a SaaS marketing agency that helps get your marketing unstuck and moving for small-team SaaS coās.
Weāre for you if:
youāve gone through 3-5 marketers and nothingās working š¤¦š½āāļø
youāve tried (and failed) at paid and have no other marketing ideas š¬
youāre not sure how to get more of the great customers youāve already got š„ŗ
Through customer research, websites that convert, and marketing execution (+ strategy!).
If you donāt know how to get marketing to work, Hereās my Cal link.
We should talk.
Not you, but you know someone in this spot?
Refer us to a friend who doesnāt want to do marketing. Weāre taking a few new clients for Marketing Sprints before we close out the year.
A DM with āI heard you were looking for help with [blank], consider hiring Sophiaā is highest praise!
Weāll see you and your inbox next week!
Cheers!
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